According to Sigmund Freud, childhood experiences shape our personalities and behavior
as adults. Freud viewed development as discontinuous; he believed that
each of us must pass through a series of stages during childhood, and
that if we lack proper nurturing and parenting during a stage, we may
become stuck in, or fixated on, that stage. According to Freud,
children’s pleasure-seeking urges (governed by the id) are focused on a
different area of the body, called an erogenous zone, at each of the
five stages of development: oral, anal, phallic, latency, and genital.
- Oral (0-1 years of age): During this stage, the mouth is
the pleasure center for development. Freud believed this is why infants
are born with a sucking reflex and desire their mother’s breast. If a
child’s oral needs are not met during infancy, he or she may develop
negative habits such as nail biting or thumb sucking to meet this basic
need.
- Anal (1-3 years of age): During this stage, toddlers and
preschool-aged children begin to experiment with urine and feces. The
control they learn to exert over their bodily functions is manifested in
toilet-training. Improper resolution of this stage, such as parents
toilet training their children too early, can result in a child who is
uptight and overly obsessed with order.
- Phallic (3-6 years of age): During this stage, preschoolers
take pleasure in their genitals and, according to Freud, begin to
struggle with sexual desires toward the opposite sex parent (boys to
mothers and girls to fathers). For boys, this is called the Oedipus complex, involving
a boy’s desire for his mother and his urge to replace his father who is
seen as a rival for the mother’s attention. At the same time, the boy
is afraid his father will punish him for his feelings, so he experiences
castration anxiety. The Electra complex, later proposed by
Freud’s protégé Carl Jung, involves a girl’s desire for her father’s
attention and wish to take her mother’s place.
- Latency (6-12 years of age): During this stage, sexual
instincts subside, and children begin to further develop the superego,
or conscience. Children begin to behave in morally acceptable ways and
adopt the values of their parents and other important adults.
- Genital (12+ years of age): During this stage, sexual
impulses reemerge. If other stages have been successfully met,
adolescents engage in appropriate sexual behavior, which may lead to
marriage and childbirth.
Criticism of Freud’s Theories
Freud’s psychosexual theory is controversial and has been thoroughly
criticized. First, even though Freud’s stages are related to children,
he based most of his theory on his work with troubled adults; he in fact
never worked with children. Second, many believed his work was too
focused on human sexuality, especially his focus on the Oedipus complex
and children’s sexual desire for parents. Some critics of Freud believe
the memories and fantasies of childhood seduction Freud reported were
not real memories but constructs that Freud created and forced upon his
patients. Finally, supporters of feminist theory believe Freud’s theory
to be sexist and overly reliant upon a male perspective (for example,
his belief that girls developed sexual libido due to “penis envy”).
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